15/05/2015

SAY NO TO ONLINE BULLY !!!






Hey Zengarmy,


I'm going to start today's blog post with a passage
from a YouTuber named Shaaanxo.




I hate it when people say 'you are in the public eye,
so put up with the haters its no big deal'.
Bullying is bullying. It doesn't matter how 'geeky', how 'popular',
how 'pretty', how 'perfect' or 'imperfect' someone is.
We are all human. We are all flesh and blood.
We are all a 'unique' version of one another at the end of the day,
we are all the same when it comes down to it.
Nobody is superior. Bullying is bullying. I can't stand it.
Don't make excuses for the bullies by saying that
'internet famous' and 'celebrities' deserve it because they 'put their lives out there'. 
What someone does with their life is none of anyone else's business.
Just because they have a different lifestyle or different job makes no difference. 
Nobody deserves to be bullied. Not a celebrity, not my mum, not myself,
not that new girl in your class who finds it hard to make friends. NOONE, FULL STOP.
Think about your comments before posting on a YouTubers status or picture or video or whatever.
Behind that camera is a normal human being with feelings.
And if your goal is to hurt those feelings, get a life.
And be nice to people! Go say hello to that lonely girl.
She is just shy, learn more about her, make an effort.
Mic has been dropped. Hahaha.





Online bullies are disgusting.


Personally, I haven't been SEVERELY online-bullied before,
but news on TV that report suicide cases of people being bullied online
provoked my anger a lot, like hell a lot.


Hold a second, maybe I did get online-bullied before.
When you started to get more successful & famous online,
some people see you as inspiration, while some others ?
THEY BECOME JEALOUS.


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When I first saw this person, I was like "Huh, who is that?",
BUT THEN as I checked my G-Mail, I noticed something ......
THIS GUY CAN'T BE SERIOUS ......


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S E R I O U S L Y  ? ! !

Just because I unfollowed him on Instagram ?

( maybe intentionally or accidentally, I don't even remember )
Did I put a gun on your forehead to FORCE YOU TO FOLLOW ME ?!!

N O !  R I G H T ?

If you're unhappy, you can always unfollow me back & block me as you wish,

BUT why leave silly childish hate comments like that on my YouTube channel ?
You think you're very cool to write things like that online ?
Let me tell you something : You are no difference from a 5-year-old ;)
( maybe even worse than a 5-year-old )
I am actually laughing out loud as I'm writing this blog post.
This incident happened like a few months ago,
and initially I did intend to blog about this silly guy,
( who doesn't even dare to put his real face as thumbnail )
but I managed to cool myself down after a few days,

realizing how silly & childish this kind of people is.


YOU TELL ME TO GET A LIFE?

WHY DON'T YOU SAY THAT TO YOURSELF
IN YOUR BATHROOM'S MIRROR?

You're welcome.









When you encounter haters,

the best way to deal with them
IS TO DO NOTHING.
( but I did blog about this hater so I guess
I'm in no position to say this mwahaha )


DO NOT LET THEM

THINK THAT THEY'VE WON.


They won nothing. They're worthless.

I know that dealing with haters is easier said than done,
I've been through the phase where I'll keep questioning myself :

" Should I keep on making YouTube videos or not? "
" People hate me !!! I don't fit in !!! "
" You don't deserve anything !!! "


Trust me. You wouldn't want to continue listening to my thoughts.

It gets worse as I think deeper. Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will.
M A R K   M Y   W O R D S .


A photo posted by ✧ Z E N G T E C K ✧ (@zengteck) on


Haters are silly, yes. 
But on the side note,
THEY'RE KINDA PITIFUL TOO.


They attack people verbally online for self pleasure,
but did they accomplished anything constructive ?
NO. NOT AT ALL.
And that's what makes them extra silly :D
If you are being online-bullied (or real-life-bullied),
DO NOT HESITATE TO CALL FOR HELP.
NOBODY WILL LAUGH AT YOU !!


And if they did, they are NOT your friends, trust me.
Get rid of those garbage from your wonderful life right now :D
When I first met my hater online, I was kind of freaked out.
But thank God my friend was by my side all the time,
telling me that I should keep on doing what I'm doing,
especially if all I did was on the bright side.


FYI, never think that you're the only one & you're alone.
There are plenty of people suffering from online bully.
And there are plenty of help available too :)
B L O C K   T H E M .
IF SOMEONE BULLY YOU IN REAL LIFE,
R E P O R T   T H E M .



DO NOT HESITATE, AT ALL.
They are NOT going to live your life.
You are the one who's going to live your life.
It's just that simple.
Your life, your rules.








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